Monday, January 5, 2009

Sensitivity Training?

Barring some serious persuasion on my husbands part, I am thinking yesterday was my last appearance at church until AFTER this baby. My due date is still 2 weeks away & I am already getting  "Are you STILL here????"  "I thought you would pop weeks ago", & so on. I mean come on. Do they really think that is helpful? Like I don't know I am huge?   I think people should have to go thru "pregnancy sensitivity training"  where they will learn what NOT to say & NOT to touch & that if they don't have something nice to say just SHUT UP!


Seriously though, WHAT possesses people? They have to know they aren't helping. I think it is just inherent in our sin nature to enjoy antagonizing people.


Being our 5th baby we are also getting a lot of "Don't you know what causes that?" "Don't you have a TV ?" and my personal favorite "I am glad it is you & not me" to which I just relpy with a smile "So am I."


I have to admit I am getting anxious. I just want to have this baby. My husband has been on vacation & I was so hoping I would have the baby while he was home. Now he is putting together his travel schedule for the month & I am freaking out. I just now I'll go into labor while he's in Fresno or somewhere . Added to my own birthing anxiety, my cow has the same due date as I do. So how do I deal with a brand new baby & a brand new calf AND milking twice a day? I'm telling you I am stressing out. Which is stupid because it doesn't change anything & it's not like I have any control over anything anyway.


So here you have the ramblings of a highly pregnant woman who just WANTS HER BABY!


Blessings.

3 comments:

  1. LOL! I am laughing -- I was at church yesterday.... and while I am still 2 months out, there are 6 of us due before June! S1 is first in January (and I was VERY careful about how I asked her due date instead of the whole "what - you are STILL pregnant?!?!?), then me in March, then L & S2 in April, J in May, and S3 in June.

    Baby and calf the same time. well, good luck with that! That is where I am saying - "glad it is you, and not me!"

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  2. Would you like someone to come be with you when your dh is gone? I'm willing!

    ~marksgirl

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  3. Hang in there Momma! Those last weeks are the longest ever. I was curious about the tinture you gave your 5 month old when he was ill. Could you tell me more about it? My children are very sick w/ an aweful cough. Thanks; Micah

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